我都18岁了 家里穷我又长的丑,我只是初中毕业,和陌生人说话总是紧张特别是女的就脸红,我该怎么办

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家里很穷,,觉得自己长的丑,懦弱,不过我还是乱花钱,没有异性朋友,和陌生人说话声音会颤抖,没有出过~

喜欢一个人没错,错的是没有给自己一个表白的机会和勇气,兄弟自信加油,如果自己都瞧不起自已,那个姑娘会跟你呢,没安全感和责任心,男子汉就要鼎天主立地,人穷志不穷,不会穷一辈子的,加油兄弟

对不起,是第13首啦……《残酷的世界》

Pink Floyd(平克·弗洛依德)
经典专辑THE WALL(迷墙)
全部歌词及翻译
成立时间:1965 伦敦 英国
风格划分:迷幻摇滚、艺术摇滚
乐队简介:Pink Floyd在摇滚史上活跃了近30年,它的声音和形象犹如一幅超现实的巨大锦画。在这些年里,Pink Floyd是最富革新精神的乐队之一——创造性和技术性,他们不断地制造着舞台音乐视听刺激的混乱场面,从而将他们推向了摇滚乐的发展前沿。在个过程中,它从伦敦迷幻的演出舞台,演化为世界上最为伟大的摇滚乐队之一。

Disc A

1.In The Flash?

"....we came in?" ....我们进来啦?

So ya 所以啊
Thought ya 想一想啊
Might like to go to the show. 可能就会想会去那个展览
To feel the warm thrill of confusion 去感受一下那温暖的恐惧和混乱
That space cadet glow. 那个年轻的宇航员发出光热
Tell me is something eluding you, sunshine? 告诉我有地方可以躲避你吗?阳光
Is this not what you expected to see? 那不正是你想要见到的吗?
If you wanna find out what's behind these cold eyes 如果你想要找出那些冷眼后的东西
You'll just have to claw your way through this disguise. 那你必须要抓出自己的路来通过这些伪装

"Lights! Turn on the sound effects! Action!" 光啊!启动那些音响效果吧!上啊!
"Drop it, drop it on 'em! Drop it on them!!!!!" 投掷吧!把它掷向他们!把它掷向他们!!!!

2.The Thin Ice

Momma loves her baby 妈妈爱她的宝贝(孩子)
And daddy loves you too. 爸爸也爱你
And the sea may look warm to you babe 大海在你面前也变得温暖啊,宝贝
And the sky may look blue 天空也看起来蓝了
But ooooh Baby 但是,噢,宝贝
Ooooh baby blue 噢,宝贝好忧伤啊
Oooooh babe. 噢,宝贝

If you should go skating 如果你要去滑冰
On the thin ice of modern life 在那现代生活的薄冰之上
Dragging behind you the silent reproach 拖着你的是无声无息的责备
Of a million tear-stained eyes 来自那百万双含着污浊眼泪的眼睛
Don't be surprised when a crack in the ice 当那冰破裂时你别惊讶
Appears under your feet. 即使那就发生在你的脚下
You slip out of your depth and out of your mind 你滑倒在你的深度和思想之外
With your fear flowing out behind you 你的恐惧也流露在你的身后
As you claw the thin ice. 当你抓住这层薄冰

3.Another Brick in the Wall (Part 1)

Daddy's flown across the ocean 爸爸飞过了大洋
Leaving just a memory 留下的只有回忆
Snapshot in the family album 简单的印象在家庭的相册
Daddy what else did you leave for me? 爸爸,你还留给我什么别的了吗?
Daddy, what'd'ja leave behind for me?!? 爸爸,你还留给我什么了?!?
All in all it was just a brick in the wall. 这些都不过是墙上的又一块砖
All in all it was all just bricks in the wall. 这些全都不过是墙上的又一块砖

"You! Yes, you! Stand still laddy!" 你,对,你!站着别动

4.The Happiest Days of our Lives

When we grew up and went to school 当我们长大去上学
There were certain teachers who would 那儿一定有某些老师会
Hurt the children in any way they could 以任何可能的方法伤害那些孩子们
"OOF!"
By pouring their derision 传步他们的嘲笑
Upon anything we did 在我们做的所有事之上
And exposing every weakness 并揭露我们的所有弱点
However carefully hidden by the kids 即使孩子们怎样小心的隐藏
But in the town, it was well known 但在镇子里,有件事众所周知
When they got home at night, their fat and 当他们晚上回到家里,他们又胖
Psychopathic wives would thrash them 又神经质的妻子们会一暴力对待他们
Within inches of their lives. 渗透他们的每一寸生命

5.Another Brick in the Wall (Part 2)

We don't need no education 我们不需要(呆板的)教育
We dont need no thought control 我们不需要被思想控制
No dark sarcasm in the classroom 我们不要在教室里被黑色讽刺
Teachers leave them kids alone 老师们离孩子们远远的吧
Hey! Teachers! Leave them kids alone! 嗨!老师们!离孩子们远远的吧!
All in all it's just another brick in the wall. 这些都不过是墙上的又一块砖
All in all you're just another brick in the wall. 你都不过是墙上的又一块砖

We don't need no education 我们不需要(呆板的)教育
We dont need no thought control 我们不需要被思想控制
No dark sarcasm in the classroom 我们不要在教室里被黑色讽刺
Teachers leave them kids alone 老师们离孩子们远远的吧
Hey! Teachers! Leave them kids alone! 嗨!老师们!离孩子们远远的吧!
All in all it's just another brick in the wall. 这些都不过是墙上的又一块砖
All in all you're just another brick in the wall. 你都不过是墙上的又一块砖

"Wrong, Do it again!" 错啦,再做一次!
"If you don't eat yer meat, you can't have any pudding. 如果你不吃完你的肉,你就不能得到一点布丁
How can you have any pudding if you don't eat yer meat?" 你怎么能得到布丁如果你不吃完你的肉
"You! Yes, you behind the bikesheds, stand still laddy!" 你!对,站在脚踏车棚后的你,站着别动!

6.Mother

Mother do you think they'll drop the bomb? 妈妈,你认为他们会掷下炸弹吗?
Mother do you think they'll like this song? 妈妈,你认为他们会喜欢着首歌吗?
Mother do you think they'll try to break my balls? 妈妈,你认为他们会尝试接受我(抛过去的球吗)?
Mother should I build the wall? 妈妈,我应该筑起心墙吗?
Mother should I run for president? 妈妈,我应该支持总统吗?
Mother should I trust the government? 妈妈,我应该信任政府吗?
Mother will they put me in the firing line? 妈妈,他们回把我放在战斗最前线吗?
Mother is it just a waste of time? 妈妈,它只是浪费时间吗?

Hush now baby, baby, dont you cry. 安静吧,宝贝,宝贝,你别哭
Mother's gonna make all your nightmares come true. 妈妈将要实现你所有的梦魇
Mother's gonna put all her fears into you. 妈妈将要将她所有的恐惧灌输在你身上
Mother's gonna keep you right here under her wing. 妈妈将要将你留在她的羽翼之下
She wont let you fly, but she might let you sing. 她不会让你哭,但她会让你歌唱
Mama will keep baby cozy and warm. 妈妈会让宝贝安逸温暖
Ooooh baby ooooh baby oooooh baby, 噢,宝贝,噢,宝贝,噢,宝贝
Of course mama'll help to build the wall. 当然,妈妈会助你筑起那堵墙

Mother do you think she's good enough -- to me? 妈妈,你觉得她对我来说够好吗?
Mother do you think she's dangerous -- to me? 妈妈,你觉得她对我来说太危险吗?
Mother will she tear your little boy apart? 妈妈,她会让你的小男孩(PINK)和你分开吗?
Mother will she break my heart? 妈妈,她会伤我的心吗?

Hush now baby, baby dont you cry. 安静吧,宝贝,宝贝,你别哭
Mama's gonna check out all your girlfriends for you. 妈妈会帮你检查你所有的女朋友
Mama wont let anyone dirty get through. 妈妈不会让任何肮脏的东西通过(检查)
Mama's gonna wait up until you get in. 妈妈会不休息的等待直到你收获
Mama will always find out where you've been. 妈妈永远都会知道你去了哪里
Mama's gonna keep baby healthy and clean. 妈妈要保持宝贝健康干净
Ooooh baby oooh baby oooh baby, 噢,宝贝,噢,宝贝,噢,宝贝
You'll always be baby to me. 你永远是我的宝贝

Mother, did it need to be so high? 妈妈,它(筑的墙)需要那么高吗?


7.Goodbye Blue Sky

"Look mummy, there's an aeroplane up in the sky" 看啊,妈咪,天空有辆飞机

Did you see the frightened ones? 你看到受惊的人们了吗?
Did you hear the falling bombs? 你听到掷下的炸弹(声)吗?
Did you ever wonder why we had to run for shelter when the
promise of a brave new world unfurled beneath a clear blue sky? 你有没有想过为什么我们必须要跑到掩蔽处当这个勇敢世界的保证展露在干净的蓝天里

Did you see the frightened ones? 你看到受惊的人们了吗?
Did you hear the falling bombs? 你听到掷下的炸弹(声)吗?
The flames are all gone, but the pain lingers on. 火焰褪去,但苦同苟沿残喘

Goodbye, blue sky 再见,蓝天
Goodbye, blue sky. 再见,蓝天
Goodbye. 再见
Goodbye. 再见
Goodbye. 再见

"The 11:15 from Newcastle is now approaching" 11点15分,纽卡斯尔来的飞机正在接近中
"The 11:18 arrival...." 11点18分到达

8.Empty Spaces

What shall we use 我们要用什么
To fill the empty spaces 来填补着空虚的空间
Where we used to talk? 我们惯于在哪里说话
How shall I fill 我要怎样填补
The final places? 这最后的地方
How can I complete the wall 我要怎样筑完着堵墙?

9.Young Lust

I am just a new boy, 我只是一个新来的小男孩
Stranger in this town. 这个镇上的陌生人
Where are all the good times? 所有的美好时光在哪儿?
Who's gonna show this stranger around? 谁要带我这个陌生人走一转?
Ooooh, I need a dirty woman. 噢,我要个肮脏的女人
Ooooh, I need a dirty girl. 噢,我要个肮脏的女孩

Will some cold woman in this desert land 会有些冷酷的女人在这不毛之地吗?
Make me feel like a real man? 会让我感觉想一个真正的男人吗?
Take this rock and roll refugee 接受这个摇滚难民
Oooh, baby set me free. 噢,宝贝,释放我吧

Ooooh, I need a dirty woman. 噢,我要个肮脏的女人
Ooooh, I need a dirty girl. 噢,我要个肮脏的女孩

[Phone rings..Clunk of receiver being lifted] 电话铃响..话筒的沉闷的金属声升起
"Hello..?" 你好..?
"Yes, a collect call for Mrs. Floyd from Mr. Floyd. 是的,一个对方付费的找Floyd先生的电话来自Floyd太太
Will you accept the charges from United States?" 你会同意支付来自美国的电话费用吗?
[clunk! of phone being put down] 沉闷的金属声!电话被放下了
"Oh, He hung up! That's your residence, right? I wonder why he hung up?噢,他挂了电话!那是你的住所,对吗?我奇怪他为什么要放下电话?
Is there supposed to be someone else there besides your wife there to answer?" 有没有可能有其它什么人在那儿,就在你妻子旁边回答电话?
[Phone rings again...clunk of receiver being picked up] 电话再次响起...话筒的沉闷的金属声(由于话筒)被拿起而终止
"Hello?" 你好?
"This is united states calling, are we reaching..." 这是个美国的电话,我们要找...
[interrupted by phone being put down] 由于挂了而中断
"See he keeps hanging up, and it's a man answering." 看来他有挂了,是个男人在接电话
[whirr of connection being closed] 连接的呼呼声被关上了

10.One of My Turns

Day after day, 日复一日
Our love turns gray, 我们的爱变得暗淡
Like the skin on a dying man. 就像一个死人的皮肤
And night after night, 夜复一夜
We pretend it's all right, 我们假装没事发生
But I have grown older, 但我已变得苍老
And you have grown colder, 你也变得冷酷
And nothing is very much fun, anymore. 没什么东西依旧显得有趣
And I can feel, 我也感觉到
One of all my turns coming on. 我的一个转变正在来临
I feel, 我感觉
Cold as a razor blade, 寒冷得像剃刀的利刃
Tight as a tourniquet, 紧得像止血带
Dry as a funeral drum. 干枯得像出殡的鼓
Run to the bedroom, 跑到卧室里
In the suitcase on the left, 就在左边的衣柜里
You'll find my favorite axe. 你会发现我的最喜爱的斧头
Don't look so frightened, 别看起来那么害怕的样子
This is just a passing phase, 这不过是一个中间阶段
One of my bad days. 只不过是我的一个糟糕的日子
Would you like to watch TV? 你想看电视吗?
Or get between the sheets? 还是上床躺躺?
Or contemplate a silent freeway? 还是想凝视那寂静的高速公路?
Would you like something to eat? 你想要些什么吃的吗?
Would you like to learn to fly? 你想学学怎样飞行吗?
Would ya? 想吗?
Would you like to see me try? 你想看看我的尝试吗?
Ooohh. No! Would you like to call the cops? 噢,不!你想叫警察吗?
Do you think it's time I stopped? 你认为这时候我应该停止了吗?
Why are you running away? 你为什么一走了之?


11.Don't Leave Me Now

Ooooh, babe 噢,宝贝
Don't leave me now. 现在别离开我
Don't say it's the end of the road. 别说这就是路的尽头
Remember the flowers I sent. 还记得我送的花吗?
I need you, babe 我需要你,宝贝
To put through the shredder 穿过搅拌机
In front of my friends 在我的朋友之前
Ooooh Babe. 噢,宝贝
Dont leave me now. 现在别离开我
How could you go? 你会去哪儿啊?
When you know how I need you 当你知道我有多么需要你
To beat to a pulp on a Saturday night 在星期六晚敲打肉浆(这句很费解)
Ooooh Babe. 噢,宝贝
How could you treat me this way? 你怎么可以这样对待我?
Running away. 就这样一走了之
I need you, Babe. Why are you running away? 我需要你,宝贝.为何你就这样一走了之?
Oooooh Babe! 噢,宝贝

12.Another Brick in the Wall (Part 3)

[Sound of many TV's coming on, all on different channels] 很多电视由远而近的声音,并且是不同的屏道
"The Bulls are already out there" 那些壮如公牛的人已经等在外面啦
Pink: "Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrgh!" Pink打叫:Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrgh!
"This Roman Meal bakery thought you'd like to know." 这间罗马的面包店觉得你想知道

I don't need no arms around me 我不需要臂膊包围着我
And I dont need no drugs to calm me. 我也不需要药物来镇定我
I have seen the writing on the wall. 我看到了墙上的留言
Don't think I need anything at all. 别以为我什么都需要
No! Don't think I'll need anything at all. 不!别以为我什么都需要
All in all it was all just bricks in the wall. 这些都不过是墙上的又一块砖
All in all you were all just bricks in the wall. 你们(变成了复数,说明墙已经完成)都不过是墙上的又一堆砖

13.Goodbye Cruel World

Goodbye cruel world, 再见,残酷的世界
I'm leaving you today. 我今天就要离开你了
Goodbye, 再见
Goodbye, 再见
Goodbye. 再见

Goodbye, all you people, 再见,你们所有这些人
There's nothing you can say 你们没什么可以说的
To make me change my mind. 能令到我改变主意
Goodbye. 再见

其实长相是天定的,事在人为而已,而你完全的把自己的缺陷扩大化,这是自卑的一种表现,人穷志短啊。人可以穷,但不能被穷困打倒。为什么我们经常听说什么好白菜给猪拱了,一朵鲜花插在牛粪上,其实很多美女都是嫁给丑男,才导致大家这样的言论。但是细观这些丑男,你就会发现他们充满着自信,厚脸皮,不在乎别人对他的看法,使得他什么都敢说出口,什么事情都敢做,即便做错了,错过了一两个,又有什么关系,机会总是会有的,这次不行还有下次,总比你一次都不敢尝试的好。



真正的美不是外表而是强大的内心,不要管别人说什么,只有自己强大了,自然就能吸引别人,别人说什么我们管不着,但是我们自己一定要对自己有信心,现在最重要的不是质疑自己,而是要相信自己,有一技之长,终究会出头。

也许你的外在美不够好,所以更要发挥自己的内在美,宽厚待人,轻松诙谐,让别人喜欢上你的本质,讲多点话,多交朋友,培养多点兴趣,学一下做菜啊,勤做家务,对你将来找配偶有好处的,20岁建议你读一下夜校,没有大专很难找工作,现在抓紧还不迟。

你说18岁的你出生贫寒,长得丑,文凭低,和陌生人说话紧张特别是女生。这几个问题怎么解决呢?
一.俗话说得好英雄莫问出处,出生在哪你没的选择。只有靠后天的努力来弥补。
二、长的丑也不是你的错。都说腹有诗书才自来
人因有才变美。
三、和陌生人接触紧张,不要紧,找一份销售的工作历练几年就成了。
只要有信心勇于改变,将来的你会越来越好!

家穷人丑是现状,谁也改变不了,此时能改的就是心态和努力工作状态!
请不要自己看不起自己,也不要抱怨我们的父母,只要你有决心改变自己,就不要再乎别人怎么看,只要我们努力学习,不怕苦,我们一定会有收获,不必和他人比美,比帅比富有!
只要我们能学得一技之长,,我们有爱心,有颗善良的人的心,我们就什么都会有的!